Thursday, September 29, 2011

2 Months Home and 15 Months

This week we celebrated 2 special days. Beau turned 15 months old on Monday and as of Wednesday, Beau has been home 2 months!

Wow! Raleigh and I are so amazed that the Lord saw fit to bless us with sweet Beau. It is a privilege and honor to parent him and we do not take the responsibility lightly. We pray that he becomes a warrior for Christ as he grows up!

Over the last month (while Beau was 14 months old) he got in a new tooth. As of today he has 9 teeth that are completely in and 2 more that are poking through.

Beau has started to use the sippy cup recently. We are encouraging him to use it throughout the day and we are limiting the bottle to nap time and bedtime. Obviously there are exceptions to this some days, but we are making progress towards less bottles. However, we are totally comfortable with Beau still being on the bottle and will continue nap and bedtime bottles for a bit longer.

I know I said this when Beau turned 14 months old, but he really is close to walking. His balance is improving everyday. It is so fun to watch him try to stand. He is an excellent cruiser and gets more adventurous all the time!

Beau is such a joy and we love him more and more everyday! I mentioned in previous post that we were waiting to get a surgery date scheduled for Beau. Well, we were given 2 options...Oct. 31 or Nov. 2. We didn't want Beau to miss his first Halloween, so we chose November 2. We are on a waiting list for an earlier date, so I will let you know if anything changes.

I will leave you with a few pictures of Beau at 14 months old...

Beau loves to eat popsicles with dad!
Ready for dinner!
Beau thinks it is hilarious when he puts his foot on the tray of the highchair!
Beau is in his pj's playing with a new toy!
Beau is playing with another new toy! It is a stacking puzzle from one of my former students.
He concentrates really hard to put the puzzle back together!
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Tuesday, September 27, 2011

Created for Care

I am really looking forward to attending the Created for Care conference in January. I'm usually not much of a conference type girl, but I really felt drawn to this and I'm so glad I registered quickly. It sold out in less than 12 hours. But there is great news!! They have organized a second conference in March! You can get all the details here!

If you have a heart for the children of the world that need a mom and dad, this conference is for you! If you are interested in adoption, this conference is for you. If you are in the process of adopting and want to connect with other families going through the same adventure, this conference is for you! If you want to find ways to plug in and serve orphans, even if you don't feel called to adoption, this conference is for you too! If you just want to know that you are not alone in the highs and lows of adoption, this is for you!

The theme of the conference this year is He makes all things beautiful in His time. If you think a weekend of connecting with other moms that have a heart for the 147+ million orphans in the world sounds like something you are interested in, be sure to check out Created for Care! Registration is Wednesday for the March retreat.

"Even the sparrow has found a home, and the swallow a nest for herself, where she may have her young--a place near your altar, O LORD Almighty, my King and my God."
Psalm 84:3



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Sunday, September 25, 2011

Football Fun

Yesterday we had some friends over for football and chili. Raleigh met Ara and Jake when they were all three in grad school school together at UAB in Birmingham. Upon graduation, all three guys got hired by the same consulting company for positions in the Atlanta office. So all three couples moved to Atlanta at the same time. Now we've all been in Atlanta about 4 1/2 years and we've got 3 kids between us with 2 more on the way.

We try to get together once a month for food and fellowship. Our Fall gatherings usually center around football. We made this chili recipe from Life in Grace. We also made the Pioneer Woman's hot artichoke dip from her cookbook The Pioneer Woman Cooks. Throw in some hotdogs and other appetizers, and you've got great game day food.

Here are a few pictures from our fun afternoon!





(I know this one is blurry, but it was the only group shot we got...)

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Friday, September 23, 2011

Introducing Mr. and Mrs. Sherrill

Last weekend we had the honor of celebrating the marriage of Erica and Matt in Tennessee! Erica is my cousin, although she has always been more like an extra sister to me. Erica and I are 21 months apart in age and have always been very close.

Erica and Matt had a beautiful church wedding and a fun reception at our uncle's barn. Everything was just perfect! Here are a few of my favorite shots taken by Brandon and Stacey of Simple Color. You can see more of their wedding day photos here!

This is Erica and Matt's first glimpse of one another on the big day!

They are married! Welcome to the family Matt!

What a pretty couple!

I love the backdrop on this one!

The beautiful couple can even make a cornfield look elegant!

Their first dance as a married couple! Love it!
The candy table was a big hit!
There were beautiful dried hydrangeas on all of the tables. Erica and Matt did an amazing job carrying the vintage feel of the reception into all of the details.

And away they go!

We love you Erica and Matt!!

Brandon and Stacey...once again you did an amazing job capturing the spirit of the day. Your pictures are timeless and priceless!

If you are ever in the market for wedding photography, engagement shots, or family pictures, be sure to check out Simple Color! Not only are their pictures stunning, they are easy to work with and will take the stress out of any photo shoot.
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Sunday, September 18, 2011

Two Great Reads

Today I am sharing two links with you for blog posts that are amazing reads.

No Greater Joy Mom: Obedience and Provision

Jen Hatmaker: After the Airport

If you are interested in adoption but don't think you could ever afford it, please take time to read this post.

And let me just be transparent and say, Raleigh and I did n.o.t. have a bank account full of money when we started the adoption process. Not at all in fact. We had just bought our home and spent most of our savings on our down payment. I am the type of person that thrives on having everything work out on paper, especially the finances. But this is not always how God operates. It did not work out on paper. But, God multiplied our efforts and every time the next fee was due, we had the money. This does NOT mean that we sat around and did nothing and waited for God to send us the money, but we did walk in faith and God took our tiny efforts and increased them. Will we adopt again? Maybe! Do we have another $25,000-$30,000 in the bank? Absolutely not!!!! Do I know that God will provide a way if he leads us to another adoption? Without a doubt!

Next, I want to recommend this post about life after the airport. She talks about so many things that ring true and I especially love this,

"I followed a God into this story who heals and redeems, who restores wasted years and mends broken places. This God specializes in the Destroyed. I've seen it. I've been a part of it. I have His ancient Word that tells of it. I love a Jesus who made reconciliation his whole mission. My children will not remain broken. They are loved by too good a Savior. I will not remain exhausted and spent. I am loved by too merciful a Father."


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Friday, September 16, 2011

Our Day at Scottish Rite

Yesterday Beau had his first trip to our local Children's Hospital. This was a planned visit that was ordered by Beau's urologist to double check his kidney function.
Here we go! Beau is in the stroller in the parking garage ready to go inside! He isn't actually mad in this picture, just focused on playing with the straps in the stroller.
Once we got inside, we checked in at the general admissions area. Beau made himself comfortable by propping his leg up on dad's leg!

Waiting patiently for his turn to fill out paperwork!

This is still in the general admissions area. Beau is curious about his surroundings!

Looking like a big boy in the chair!

Waiting with dad is fun!

Next we went to the Radiology waiting room and filled out a little more paperwork.

Beau got these cool stickers for his back!

Once we got to our room, Beau realized this wasn't so fun anymore!

Get me out of here!

I don't have pictures of the next several hours. The nurses really earned their money trying to get an iv set up in Beau. The first two times they thought they had good veins, but they both collapsed. Next, they got the iv in and were getting ready to give him fluids when all of the sudden his arm started getting really bloody. The iv had come out. After one more try, they paged the iv team. It took a while for the iv team to show up, so Beau fell asleep while we waited.

This is us waiting on the iv team. They put hot bags (not sure the technical name) on both arms and legs to try to help the veins come out or something. Notice Beau's sweaty head!! He had worked himself into a sweaty frenzy while they were trying to get the iv in for over an hour.

Luckily, the iv team was able to successfully get the iv started in his foot on the first try.

We walked around the hallway for a bit while Beau got fluids through the iv. Then we were taken back to the nuclear medicine room for his mag3 scan. Basically, they strapped him into this machine with velcro. He had a catheter inserted at this time and then they put a dye in the iv so that the camera could track his kidney function.

This is Beau ready for his first mag3 in the US. He actually already had this done in Korea, but his urologist wanted to confirm the results would be the same since the previous test was done at the beginning of 2011.

Beau cried for about half of the hour long scan and was calm the other half. We were so proud of him!! Luckily Raleigh and I got to sit next to him the entire time. There was a tv in the room with cartoons on, so that would occasionally distract him, but he doesn't have much of an attention span for watching tv.

After we left Scottish Rite, we went to the urologist's office and he reviewed the scans with us. Basically Beau's left kidney is not filtering and emptying. This is what the doctor had expected. He will have surgery to correct the UPJ blockage in his ureter sometime soon, but we don't know exactly when just yet.

Beau's urologist explained that the surgery will take a couple of hours and has a 90% success rate. We will stay one night in the hospital and then come home the following day if everything looks good. The only strange thing is that after surgery Beau will have a catheter for a week. I must have made a surprised face when the doctor said this because he was quick to tell us that it will be easy to care for and they will show us exactly what to do.

We are so thankful for the healthcare that Beau received in Korea and we're especially thankful for all of the times Beau's foster mom took him to the hospital for tests!

We are looking forward to having the surgery done so that hopefully Beau's left kidney will function a little better.

Once we got home, Beau crashed on the couch for about 2 hours.

He was in need of a good nap after working so hard all day!
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Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Cuddles and Kisses

My heart has been thinking about Beau's foster mom a lot recently. It's probably in part because Beau has had a rough couple of weeks as far as sleeping is concerned and he cries for his omma during the night. It breaks my heart every. single. time. I know she loved him so much and I am beyond thankful for that. I also know that she never intended to adopt him and raise him forever, but it is still hard to know that Beau misses her and I'm sure she misses him too. I am working on a photo album to send to her to let her know that Beau is doing well and is well cared for and loved beyond measure.

One piece of paperwork that we received when Beau came home is a pre-flight physical. It is basically a summary sheet of how he is eating, sleeping, etc.

The thing that struck me the most was that his foster mom noted that Beau loves to be cuddled and kissed. Oh sweet boy! Was she worried that we might not cuddle and kiss him? Did she just want to make sure we knew? Was it her way of telling us that he had been cuddled and kissed while he lived in Korea?

I don't know exactly why she chose to put it on there, but I do know that this boy is loved! Raleigh and I constantly look at Beau and watch him play and we simply don't know how we got to be so very blessed. God has lavished us with His grace and given us the gift of a precious son. A son that did not grow inside of me, but a son that grew in my heart. A son that was prayed for and loved even before he was born.

Today, I hope that Beau's foster mom has a peace inside her heart and knows that we love Beau and our loves grows more each day. We will cuddle and kiss him his whole life! Yes, a mom can still hug and kiss her grown son!

I also pray for Beau's birth mother. I pray that she also knows how loved and cherished Beau is. How thankful we are to her that she gave life to our sweet son. I pray that the Lord would be gracious enough to let us meet her one day and thank her for the precious gift of our son.

And sweet Beau! You have learned to trust us so much during the day. You love to smile and play and explore! I pray that the Lord would send angels to surround you at night and help you feel safe. We pray that the Lord will comfort your heart when you miss your omma, the way only He can. We pray also for wisdom that we would know how to comfort you during the night when you miss your omma.

We love you so much Beau and we will love you forever!
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Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Pacifier Bites the Dust


Well, Beau bit through his pacifier. Now we are on the hunt for the perfect replacement. This is the pacifier that Beau came home with from Korea. He loves this pacifier, especially at nap time and bed time. We are so thankful that he did not choke when it broke in half. Luckily, he spit it out as soon as he bit it in two.


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Saturday, September 3, 2011

Roll Tide

Beau is having fun watching his first Alabama football game with daddy!



First Down Do it Again!
Doing push-ups with dad after the first touchdown!

Go Bama!



Watching football with dad is fun!
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